Friends and family are the most important two parts of our life. A lot of people may say that I don't care, I can live alone. And you may find a lot of people enjoying loneliness. But trust me, they are in excruciating pain. They just don't show it. They always feel an emptiness inside them, some of them cry before going to sleep, some them stand alone in the balcony with a cup of coffee at night and keep staring at stars wishing if there would be someone he/she could stare at the stars with. But whatever they may do, they are depressed most of the time. It's just some can handle the depression very well and some can't. Some can still keep working with the depression inside and some allow the depression to destroy their life. But at the end of the day, they all have the same pain inside. Nobody can live without friends and family by their side. Because we are created like that, we are meant to be like that. We need at least one, either family or friends by our side and the funny part is when we have one, we want the other one too. A person who can barely manage his/her foods, but has his/her friends and family around all the time, is happier than a billionaire without friends and family. A kiss from the loved one after coming home from the office can change all the tiredness of the day into happiness. Two hours with friends at the coffee shop from 9 pm to 11 pm after a hectic day can make you forget all the pains you took the whole day. A family dinner is enough to make us feel that life is not bad after all. Now think about those people who also experience the same kind of day and has no one to talk to at the end of the day. We don't need to be genius to understand how depressed and unhappy they are.
Consider yourself very lucky if you have the ability to share your inner self and even one person to share with. There are people who can't share even if they want to. And then there are also people who don't have anyone to share with. There is a kind of people we call introverts. Introvert people, in most cases, don't have friends. They are silent most of the time or some may talk but never talk what they really want to talk about. Those people have the most things to share but the least people to share with. In most cases, they don't have anyone to share with. There is a reason why they have most things to share. Because they have an entire universe inside them which no one knows about. They think most of the time and there are times when they are so concentrated in their thoughts that they don't actually see what's happening around them. But the world is hard for them. The world doesn't care about them and what they think. No one usually takes a step forward and makes them feel that they are not alone and they also have someone to share things with.
When I use the word 'friends', I don't mean acquaintances. We know a lot of people and we can hang out with them too. But don't make the mistake of thinking that they are friends. Well, being acquainted is the first step of friendship, true. And keep your door open for them to be your friends if you think they are worth it. But, still, they aren't your friends until you can barge in their house in the middle of the night and tell them "I am not feeling okay". And you don't need so many friends of the kind I just described. Even one friend like that can be enough for your life.
So, if you have your friends and family around you, consider yourself lucky, thank the God and cherish every moment with them, because a lot of people are willing to give anything to have a moment like that.
Consider yourself very lucky if you have the ability to share your inner self and even one person to share with. There are people who can't share even if they want to. And then there are also people who don't have anyone to share with. There is a kind of people we call introverts. Introvert people, in most cases, don't have friends. They are silent most of the time or some may talk but never talk what they really want to talk about. Those people have the most things to share but the least people to share with. In most cases, they don't have anyone to share with. There is a reason why they have most things to share. Because they have an entire universe inside them which no one knows about. They think most of the time and there are times when they are so concentrated in their thoughts that they don't actually see what's happening around them. But the world is hard for them. The world doesn't care about them and what they think. No one usually takes a step forward and makes them feel that they are not alone and they also have someone to share things with.
When I use the word 'friends', I don't mean acquaintances. We know a lot of people and we can hang out with them too. But don't make the mistake of thinking that they are friends. Well, being acquainted is the first step of friendship, true. And keep your door open for them to be your friends if you think they are worth it. But, still, they aren't your friends until you can barge in their house in the middle of the night and tell them "I am not feeling okay". And you don't need so many friends of the kind I just described. Even one friend like that can be enough for your life.
So, if you have your friends and family around you, consider yourself lucky, thank the God and cherish every moment with them, because a lot of people are willing to give anything to have a moment like that.
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